The situation in Galvendale (Don't worry, fun stuff will be followed:-D)
Liebenhaus, the kid's home I've been working at, currently accommodate 23 kids aged from 6-17. They are all from very very broken homes, abused or neglected.
Until a couple years ago, Liebenhaus had to call around and ask for basic stuff like food and toiletries. They were always short of food and are still in need for other things to make the home comfortable for the kids so that they can feel proud when they come home.
This area, Galvendale, as a whole has also faced difficulties such as a high rate of unemployment, violence, crime, poverty and so on.
A volunteer who worked for another project told me that a boy's family members don't care about each other at all and none of his family, even his mum, visited him when he got shot on the street and was in hospital for two months because, to them, it was just his fault.
Every morning 4 of us drive from our house to Liebenhaus and see many children who can't go to school, some of which walk along roads where you can see rubbish all over the places and look for something like copper they can sell from the rubbish. And adults too. We see many people who just stand outside their house around 10am. Someone told me that the unemployment rate here is very high and even if they can find a job, it's often temporary and blue-collar.
Four of us were invited for a dinner last night by Peter and Daphne, who have been involved with Liebenhaus and especially he told us a lot about situations in South Africa in the past and the present.
His stories reminded me of something I thought I always knew.
For example, although apartheid was abolished more than ten years ago, people's attitude can't change as quickly as a legislation can be implemented.
Older colours can still be shy or nervous with white people and in turn some of the white show little respect for the colours. As Peter said, apartheid was something not only to separate white and black but also to put black down.
However, as I hear from evreyone I meet here, those who live in this poor situation have a great heart and everyone on the street smiles and waves at us in the car! Lovely:-)
Well, having written the sad and unfair stories,
I've already had great fun at Liebenhaus.
Two days ago I met all the 23 kids, who had never met any Oriental before and just keep staring at me..haha It was not as uncomfortable as it sounds as I always feel good to be the first:-p Now I have to behave myself, representing Japan!
They were shy with us for a couple of minutes so I was wondering how we could interact with them but, as you'd know, there was no need to worry. Now, after 2days, little ones run around us, clime up on us and teach us how to play their games, and the older ones enjoy playing volleyball (one of few things I know how) and talking with us. Everyone is keen on finding out where we are from and where we've been to on a World map, which is so fun:D!! I've shown them pictures of my family and my trips and one of them told me I looked older than my mum, yaa, thank you!!lol
They are all so lovely and special! Hope I'll feel and know it more in 3 and a half weeks time^^
Also, as I've written above, the dinner last night was very nice, food, people, talk, the house and everything:-) And last night I looked up the sky for the first time here and the stars are brilliant!! They seem just so closer to you and rounder!! You must see it one day^^
In about 30 minutes time, the kids will come back from school and we can play a lot today as they have no homework time on fridays! It means I need to get ready for all the energetic running and playing before they get home:-)
Eeeerrm, this is enough to realise that it's not easy to keep my messages here short as a lot of things are always going on and I'm still learning various new things from the kids and people I meet here.
Thank you for visiting and reading my page!
Hope you are not tired of reading it and come back later:D
Mai
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misa wrote:
22 Aug 2008 at 13:07 yeeey! seems like you are having a great time there. im happy! and im a bit jelaous as you are having such a valuable experience. i know 'Hashimoto style' will make everyone smile:)looking forward to the next post!take care,xCassie wrote:
24 Aug 2008 at 15:02 Hello My Dear :-),It was such a happy supprise to hear about you going away on such an exciting trip. I'm glad to hear you are having a good time, despite how sad these kids situations are. I know you will be a positive experience for them. Look after yourself and keep having fun xxx
Marcel wrote:
26 Aug 2008 at 10:51 Hello Mai,I am a former volunteer from the Secondary Schools project and worked together with Zoë.
It was my wish also to volunteer for Liebenhaus but ended up at SS project. Which was very nice and we could do a lot for those kids also in the age of 17 - 23.
Thank you for telling us about what you and your friends are doing now. Its wonderful to reading about it. Hope you have a good time there and give all your enthousiasme to the kids.
And please look after Zoë a little bit :>), you should have great fun together.
Greetings, Marcel
Tafadzwa wrote:
29 Aug 2008 at 13:50 hey dear..wow nice and touching blog..Guess yu really are doing a good thing being with those kids..They need a loving hand ..I am in P.E too ..yah glad you made it and yah call me 0788302222..yah and we see what to doMai wrote:
06 Sep 2008 at 19:07 >MisaHey, im happy to hear that you are happy:)
and year be jealous!hehe
Well, you've been Germany and are also going to Sweden soon! How great that is too!
Looking forward to seeing you in Manchester:D
Take care!xxxx
Mai wrote:
06 Sep 2008 at 19:10 >CassieThank you for your nice message:D
Hope the kids like having us! (And they seem so:))
I look forward to hearing about stories of your summer too! Take care xxxx
Mai wrote:
06 Sep 2008 at 19:18 >MarcelHello,
Thank you for your message!
I've been having a great time with Zoë and the other two Dutch girls, who are all dead nice:)
Zoë told us a lot about your project and we went have a look around at Back2school and Ready4Life the other day, which was quite a big impact on me and i was thinking I'd do that project if i got an opportunity to work with Be More again one day.
I've been off my weblog for 2weeks now,
so will post a new report soon! Take care:D
Mai wrote:
06 Sep 2008 at 19:20 >TafadzwaHey, thank you for your message!
It took me a while to recognise you as the one i know through WAYN as you use different names!
What's your real name or nickname that i should know??
Anyways. i'll text you later on:D
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